A rumor perpetuated by exactly one company - Twitter. I know because I was there when it happened and helped dismantle the original monolith.
Rails scales just fine for 99%+ of business cases. If you're doing a sustained 5k writes per second with bursts up to 100k...sure maybe you need something more specialized.
Even the slowest web frameworks running on modern hardware take some quite substantial load before they're a problem. It's good when choosing a framework to consider if you're doing stuff where that might be a problem, but it's also good not to overestimate the performance needs for your site.
It's been a while but I think we were at like 250mm MAUs when we finally decided to break up the rails monolith (and I think it was still on Rails 3 at the time, but don't quote me on that). The number of companies that ever hit that kind of scale approaches zero, and even less in the B2B space.
Doing things that don't scale is a proven strategy at the beginning, pg even has a post about it
Plenty of newer startups use Rails. At least several pretty much every YC batch. You just need to pay attention.
There are others you can use if you like.
Ruby should take lessons from Python and TS on how to make proper gradual typing.
That retains Sorbet’s fast static checker and its runtime checks which Typescript compiled to JS lacks.
Sigh - all languages needn't converge into Grey Goo.
> a failure to type all the things and make it work
Everything is typed in Ruby.