Nightmare to evaluate the options, pure stress testing the options, difficult to know if it didn’t mess something up.
I was going to add some additional comments about this, but then I found that Paragon's website has an FAQ that covers everything I was going to say (and more): https://www.paragon-software.com/us/home/ntfs3-driver-faq/
Given how many people use FUSE, Paragon NTFS for Mac, and similar tools, you're hardly totally representative.
What percentage of MacOS users even know what that is. I mean I am in the percent but I know it's sub 0.001
Edit: but to be fair, that's mostly only relevant for unsupported network filesystems like sshfs...
How many people use software like this because they have no choice? I used Paragon NTFS, but the entire time, I thought it was ridiculous that MacOS can't read NTFS on its own.
I don't really understand your objection to be honest. Drivers for storage are common on other platforms
Btrfs, Ext4 and XFS are all under GPLv3, which may or may not be a problem for Apple, but "just in case".
They tried with ZFS, but couldn't strike a deal with Sun/Oracle, so instead invented APFS.
Apple already delivers a stable filesystem. It may not be "best of breed", but it works, as billions of devices runs on it every day with zero problems.