I get why some people don't want to use systemd. That's fine.
I really don't understand why this group of people are so passionate about broadcasting this opinion to anyone within earshot. They don't like a piece of software, great! They've got different values! Use something else!
I personally do not use GNOME, nor am I running a non-systemd system at the moment. This is the first time I wrote a single word about systemd vs other inits on the internet, explicitly because it couldn't be more on-topic.
It's a common false compromise to say you now depend on a component but welcome alternative implementations. In reality, this quickly becomes treadmill for their maintainers, forced to adapt to its quirks so the dependent software even has a chance of working. You can read more about eudev as a more notable example of that dynamic. Projects like Wayland avoid it by having a committee of major implementations vote on proposed specs.
It's fine if they don't. Other users of GNOME will want to push back on API changes and deprecation. This is normal in software.
I think, if this is a surprise to anyone, they're not really paying attention. If you want GNOME you go along for the ride, and that's the message we've all gotten for the past 10 years. This same conversation keeps coming back up.
Just use KDE or something else if that's not an experience you, or other's, want. Personally, I despise GNOME, so problem solved for me. But, we have these conflicting takes where people will complain about fragmentation on Linux and then also complain about monocultures like GNOME. That's the experience GNOME very clearly wants to give, so if that's bad to you, then don't use it. And, on a distro level, maintainers can decide if they want to ship GNOME or if they want to make it the default.