Let's say I eat 3 hamburgers per day and gain ~1kg per month.
If I reduce that to 2 hamburgers per day I maintain my weight.
And when I reduce that to 1 hamburger per day I lose ~1kg per month.
That is simple. As for how I feel while eating 1 hamburger that's another question.
I can try to improve the machinery of my body by e.g exercising, eating healthier food, adjusting my macros, taking supplements, etc.
So now I can eat 1.5 hamburgers per day and I feel better and still lose 1kg per month.
Humans (unlike say cows) do not digest parts of what is available in plants, which makes some vegetables filling and ultra-low caloric.
"we don't really know how many calories a given person will get from eating a given piece of food"
exact numbers of unknown, but difference is not so great, except truly extreme cases (and vast majority of fat people is not fat due to them)
Why does every major restaurant feature individual meals with a caloric intake of an entire day’s energy?
Separately though, I have no idea why restaurants seem to exclusively offer gigantic portions over here. I wonder how common this is elsewhere in the world? I'm not well traveled so I genuinely have no idea.