IMO it's best to focus on objective things that the systems can do today, with maybe a look forward so we can prepare for things they'll be able to do "tomorrow". The rest is too noisy for me. I'm OK with some skepticism, but not outright denial. You can't take an unbiased look at what these things can do today and say "well, yes, but can they do x y z"? That's literally moving the goalposts, and I find it extremely counter productive.
In a way I see a parallel to the self driving cars discussions of 5 years ago. Lots of very smart people were focusing on silly things like "they have to solve the trolley problem in 0.0001 ms before we can allow them on our roads", instead of "let's see if they can drive from point A to point B first". We are now at the point where they can do that, somewhat reliably, with some degree of variability between solutions (waymos, teslas, mercedes, etc). All that talk 5 years ago was useless, IMO.