You've had a good chance to really see 4096 descriptions in select() somewhere. The man is misleading because it refers to the stubbornly POSIX compliant glibc wrapper around actual syscall. Any sane modern kernel (Linux; FreeBSD; NT (although select() on NT is a very different beast); well, maybe except macOS, never had a chance to write network code there) supports passing the descriptor sets of arbitrary size to select(). It's mentioned further down in the man, in the BUGS section:

> POSIX allows an implementation to define an upper limit, advertised via the constant FD_SETSIZE, on the range of file descriptors that can be specified in a file descriptor set. The Linux kernel imposes no fixed limit, but the glibc implementation makes fd_set a fixed-size type, with FD_SETSIZE defined as 1024, and the FD_*() macros operating according to that limit.

The code I've had a chance to work with (it had its roots in the 90s-00s, therefore the select()) mostly used 2048 and 4096.

> Anyways, seriously just use poll().

Oh please don't. poll() should be in the same grave as select() really. Either use libev/libuv or go down the rabbit hole of what is the bleeding edge IO multiplexer for your platform (kqueue/epoll/IOCP/io_uring...).