Nuclear missile subs are very good at hiding (they've been doing it for 60+ years) and the ocean is a big place.
1 Borei is what, 96 MIRVs?
Which is the point... even one missed is unacceptable.
Do you have some basis for that? I've never heard it, I would be very surprised if either country allowed any part of their triad to be disabled, and both invest enormous resources in other parts of their triads.
Because technology was rapidly advancing, it was unclear whether any breakthrough (e.g. high altitude SAMs, etc.) might suddenly nullify one leg.
If that were the only leg, the game theory response would be for the nullifier to immediately launch a first strike, to take advantage of their no-doubt temporary superiority.
Now as to whether Russia's other triad legs are credible MAD components on their own... numbers do matter.
With their strategic airforce being degraded post-USSR without replacement and amidst recapitalization of the Deltas to Boreis, it's questionable is Russia can afford to maintain an effective three leg triad in the intermediate term.
And if the other legs atrophy, there's also an incentive for the US and China to invest more in nullifying the remaining leg(s).