Other person says: I had to spend 4000$ and it's still slow
The KV cache won't soften the blow the first time they paste a code sample into a chat and end up waiting 10 minutes with absolutely no interactivity before they even get first token.
You'll get an infinitely more useful build out of a single 3090 and sticking to stuff like Gemma 27B than you will out of trying to run Deepseek off a CPU-only build. Even a GH200 struggles to run Deepseek at realistic speeds with bs=1, and there's an entire H100 attached to CPU there: there just isn't a magic way to get "affordable fast effective" AI out of a CPU offloaded model right now.
I setup Deepseek bs=1 on a $41,000 GH200 and got double digit prompt processing speeds (~50 tk/s): you're definitely getting worse performance than the GH200 was, and that's already unacceptable for most users.
They'd be much better served spending less money than you had to spend and getting an actually interactive experience, instead of having to send off prompts and wait several minutes to get an actual reply the moment the query involves any actual context.