Everyone else is visiting your site for entirely self-serving purposes, too.
I don’t understand why people are ok with Google scraping their site (when it is called indexing), fine with users scraping their site (when it is called RSS reading), but suddenly not ok with AI startups scraping their site.
If you publish data to the public, expect the public to access it. If you don’t want the public (this includes AI startups) to access it, don’t publish it.
Your website is not being misused when the data is being downloaded to train AI. That’s literally what public data is for.