I honestly think most people don't care. Yes, a HN bubble care, and might influence what a company chooses. But most people will just reach for Redis by default, none the wiser of all the drama in some small circles.
Even when using test services, using docker works best since all the Devs will be on the same version instead of splitting between Debian, fedora, and brew versions.
I don't think this opinion is realistic or grounded in reality. Any company goes through license reviews when discussing which project to adopt. You may not care what software you run on a weekend project, but everyone working in a professional setting goes through a long bureaucratic song and dance act with legal representatives to verify if they can or cannot use a dependency.