Yep. Gitlens is a very annoying thing. Not sure why people put up with it.
Now that VS Code has more of those features built in and there are alternatives the first mover advantage keeps the extension sticky because people don't feel pressure to learn about the built-in features or because people don't want to learn about alternative extensions because "the tool I already know is annoying but is fine".
Maybe vscode has these built-in by now? Using the Gitless fork so not that annoying.
Yes, the blame feature is built-in now, with pop-up and all.