As phrased, you clearly want the answer to this question to be no, but the irony there is that that is how you kill a language. This is simply survivor bias, like inspecting the bullet damage only on the fighter planes that survive. You should also be listening to people who don't want to use your language to understand why they don't want that, especially people that stopped using the language. Otherwise you risk becoming more and more irrelevant. It won't all be valuable evidence, but they are clearly the people that cannot live with the problems. When other languages listen, better alternatives arise.