You can get the architectural benefits of microservices by using message-passing-style Object-Oriented programming. It requires the discipline not to reach directly into the database, but assuming you just Don't Do That a well-encapsulated "object" is a microservice that runs in the same virtual machine as the other mircoservices.
Java is the most mainstream language that supports that: whenever you find yourself reaching for a microservice, instead create a module, namespace the database tables, and then expose only the smallest possible public interface to other modules. You can test them in isolation, monitor the connections between them, and bonus: it is trivial to deploy changes across multiple "services" at the same time.