Options are really cool since they are so well named. They really do give you a ton of options to adjust your risk to exactly what you want.
On one hand, you can have infinite risk strategies, on the other, you can lock in a stock price almost exactly, with little market risk. And then everything in between (ie, you can easily build something that's like: "I think this stock will go up a few bucks, but nothing crazy", or maybe: "I'm worried about a horrible plunge, but a minor decline is fine, I'll buy a put out of the money and have coverage for the plunge".)
And really, it's fairly simple, a lot of the stuff I said about "time value" and such was related to how you value options, not the actual complexity of the thing itself. "How much is this worth" is always tricky, even for something as easy to understand as a bond.
Organized markets, and bubbles, and derivatives are all old. And they aren't inherently bad either.
You have to look at futures & options as a way to sell or buy risk. If you're willing to pay somebody, they'll take your risk away. And the other way, if you want to take on some risk in exchange for money, you can do that.
(note, that last thing sounds scary, but how about this: sell a put [ie, promise to buy a stock at a certain price] right near where you want to buy the stock anyway [with a traditional limit order]. If it gets to below that level, you get 'assigned' the stock, which you wanted anyway, at the price you wanted anyway. If it doesn't hit that, then you wouldn't have bought the stock anyway. The counterparty gets insurance against their stock dropping. You take on the "risk" of it dropping, but you've set yourself up so that it works out for everybody involved).
(note that last strategy doesn't work if the stock temporarily dips, then pops back up. You probably won't get assigned in that situation, where a limit order would have triggered. That risk is what you get in exchange for getting paid for selling the put).