you might like mcp.run, a tool management platform we're working on... totally agree running a process per tool, with all kinds of permissions is nonsensical - and the move to "remote MCP" is a good one!
but, we're taking it a step (or two) further, enabling you to dynamically build up a MCP server from other servers managed in your account with us.
try it out, or let me get you a demo! this goes for any casual comment readers too ;)