Amazon's scraper doesn't back off. Meta, google, most of the others with identifiable user agents back off, Amazon doesn't.
tcpdrop shouldn't self DOS though, it's using less resources. Even if other end does a retry, it will do it after a timeout; in the meantime, the other end has a socket state and you don't, that's a win.
(I don't think your blog qualifies as shady … but you're not in my allowlist, either.)
So if I visit https://anubis.techaro.lol/ (from the "Anubis" link), I get an infinite anime cat girl refresh loop — which honestly isn't the worst thing ever?
But if I go to https://xeiaso.net/blog/2025/anubis/ and click "To test Anubis, click here." … that one loads just fine.
Neither xeserv.us nor techaro.lol are in my allowlist. Curious that one seems to pass. IDK.
The blog post does have that lovely graph … but I suspect I'll loop around the "no cookie" loop in it, so the infinite cat girls are somewhat expected.
I was working on an extension that would store cookies very ephemerally for the more malicious instances of this, but I think its design would work here too. (In-RAM cookie jar, burns them after, say, 30s. Persisted long enough to load the page.)
Is your browser passing a referrer?
I used cookie blockers for a long time, but always ended up having to whitelist some sites even though I didn't want their cookies because the site would misbehave without them. Now I just stopped worrying.