>> The real sleight of hand in this explanation is it doesn't really explain why the quantum-mechanical electron doesn't radiate energy like the classical electron. That's a big more subtle, but it's basically due ...
This subtle part is exactly the piece that I am missing.
So far, we have electron in an orbital. The orbital in itself seems stationary (standing waves), so it may seem nothing is accelerating. I presume that is not it for the answer.
If it is, that still feels like, Oh, I solved Schroginger's equation, and it yields these standing waves for the solution, electron is not really having a certain position and momentum as the wave function hasn't collapsed, and thereby there is no acceleration for the electron to be radiating energy.
Asking a total newbie question. I heard that QM has operators, so momentum also has an operator. Is there one for acceleration? Would it yield a zero?
If so: I see Coulomb's force. Is there another force balancing it? Or is Newton's third law not valid anymore.