OK, then we don't know if you're really a loser trying to appear successful so we'll listen to you on PHP.
So I believe icode, personally. My feelings are "good for him" and "I hope he enjoys his steak and strippers".
I'm just making a personal choice to give icode the benefit of the doubt. If he's uneasy about broadcasting his difficult struggle to tens of thousands of people, then that's entirely his personal choice, and I'm happy he was willing to share few details about his experience.