All this only makes sense in the context of large groups; at the individual level, many factors determine whether someone has children.
What the puppet masters will tell you though that a country’s fertility rate are declining, because women want careers, the men are incels, and fertility drops due to climate change and microplastics.
Most people I know around my age, either limit the number of children or delay having them because they don’t feel safe bringing a child into this world.