What am I getting wrong? you planted a coconut but grew a palm tree ?
All coconut trees are palm trees, but not all palm trees grow coconuts.
In India, you'd call a coconut tree a coconut tree and an arecanut tree a palm.
You're still confused. Coconut tree and palm tree aren't interchangeable; to be a coconut tree, the tree has to grow coconuts. All palm trees count as "palm trees", whether they grow coconuts or not. The prototypical palm tree grows dates.
This is a mix up on why certain oils are on the current “oils to avoid” list. Palm oil gets a bad reputation mainly because of environmental issues with how it's grown, not because it's unhealthy. But all these concerns get lumped together in the “bad oils” list.
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