You can get the first tutorial for free if you sign up for the raywenderlich.com newsletter. It assumes no prior knowledge of iOS or Objective-C and runs you through building a simple game. Then for 54$ you can get the three other tutorials.
The second tutorial shows you step by step how to build a checklist app (using Storyboards).
The third tutorial is about doing a simpler version of Foursquare (using Core Location, Map Kit, the camera and photo library, Core Data and Core Animation).
And in the fourth tutorial you'll learn how to make a clone of the default iTunes app by using the iTunes Store Search API (http://www.apple.com/itunes/affiliates/resources/documentati...) as well as AFNetworking.
I highly recommend them.
I currently am slightly comfortable with Python, I have gone through some C tutorials, and I will keep going through OOP tutorials until Tuesday.
I plan on spending 10+ hours a day on this until I finish the course and feel comfortable enough to create my first app, which will be the next step.
Open source iOS apps: http://maniacdev.com/2010/06/35-open-source-iphone-app-store...
http://developer.apple.com/library/ios/navigation/#section=R...
I found this one very useful to get started: http://www.amazon.com/Beginning-iOS-Development-Exploring-SD...
After that, go with the tutorials that everyone else is recommending. http://www.raywenderlich.com/tutorials
you should first read the objective-c primer.
https://developer.apple.com/library/mac/#referencelibrary/Ge...
You mentioned the apple docs feel complex to you but I'd honestly recommend truly taking your time and working through them as they really are the best.
* Stanford's videos and homeworks
* Ray Wenderlich's site
* Big Nerd Ranch's iOS and Obj-C books
If you want to learn Cocos2D for game development, also check out Learning Cocos2D.To shamelessly plug, we also run a full-time, in-person iOS course (http://hashmaplabs.com).
Stackoverflow or Google when you have specific questions.
When you say the Apple Developer resources are designed for a bit more smart audience I assume you mean already informed and knowledgeable about the basic APIs.
Take-away is; I started with the stanford tutorials (great!), but then just decided to dive in and learn along the way.
http://thenewboston.org tutsplus.com