Ask HN: How do you onboard children onto the digital world?

Hey folks! My local community is having more and more discussions around smartphone and computer use for children/teenager!

There is a lot of fear and helplessness. Shutting computers down as much as possible etc.

I am looking for a “Hackers Guide to the digital age for children”. I want my kids to be curious, explore, break things. Is this naive? Is social media destroying the fun part about computers?

Anyone here has a guide or suggestions how to teach or onboard kids to computers with a hacker mindset? As in exploration?