- It's elementary to the point that you can introduce it whenever you want.
- It automatically gives a sense of scale: larger than 2, but not by a lot.
- At least to me, it confers some sense of importance. You can get the sense that this number e has some deep connection to infinity and infinitesimal change and deserves further study even if you haven't seen calculus before.
- It directly suggests a way of calculating e, which "the base of the exponential function with derivative equal to itself" doesn't suggest as cleanly.
I don't know of any calculus course that relies on this definition for much: that's not its purpose. The goal is just to give students a fairly natural introduction to the constant before you show that e^x and ln x have their own unique properties that will be more useful for further manipulation.