This is why projects like Librem 5 and Pinephone as so important. Give one to your kid it they will learn computing.
All I achieved was to convince them that computers are hard and stupid and not fun, and that iPads and Playstation are superior in every way.
Fast forward a decade and I end up being a programmer. Most people won’t learn technical things just for the hell of it.
maybe you are pushing them to do things with computers too early and you would have more success if you focused more on trying to capture their wonder.
Since the early 1990s, pre-packaged games and social media have delivered more dopamine faster. It's changed children and teenagers, but it's changing them in a different way than BASIC changed their parents.