At very least, having clear boundaries on data ownership is something I really wish my company had done from the start. We have legacy structures that are very hard to iterate on because they get loaded by ~20 different applications directly from the database. That means any minor change to that structure requires careful planning and roll out of the shared library to these 20 services.
Were these behind a service, we'd still have to negotiate the structure (we could, for example, delete a field willy nilly) but we'd be able to add new fields to the structure or change the way those fields are populated to meet current business requirements without a mass rollout.
I do think the micro/nano approach can often be wrong. I think a service should be as big as it should be to cover the domain it's dealing with. But, importantly, who owns what bit of information is by large the most important thing to get right.