I suspect all these things are happening because the Trump government's sheer number of actions makes it impossible to react to or report on everything. Creating chaos is the goal, not an accident, and preposterous actions like threatening to annex Canada (or closing access to a shared library) allow the Trump administration to undermine the system in less obvious ways while everybody is paying attention to the flashy stuff.
It's also important to remember that democracies are weird in the sense that people who could abuse power voluntarily do not do so. Democratic systems only work because people accept that they work (similar to fiat money). Once people start questioning them, they can fail very quickly (see the collapse of Silicon Valley Bank).
Presidential systems are particularly susceptible to this sudden collapse because they start out with a strong concentration of power in one person.
After all the recent firings and appointments, so many people in positions of power believe in unconstrained executive action that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Recent Supreme Court decisions related to presidential immunity from criminal prosecution for actions taken while in office bolster this view.