Revolutionary things are things that change how society actually works at a fundamental level. I can think of four technologies of the past 40 years that fit that bill:
the personal computer
the internet
the internet connected phone
social media
those technologies are revolutionary, because they caused fundamental changes to how people behave. People who behaved differently in the "old world" were forced to adapt to a "new world" with those technologies, whether they wanted to or not. A newer more convenient way of ordering a taxicab or watching a movie or music are great consumer product stories, and certainly big money makers. They don't cause complex and not fully understood changes to way people work, play, interact, self-identify, etc. the way that revolutionary technologies do.
Language models feel like they have the potential to be a full blown sociotechnological phenomenon like the above four. They don't have a convenient consumer product story beyond ChatGPT today. But they are slowly seeping into the fabric of things, especially on social media, and changing the way people apply to jobs, draft emails, do homework, maybe eventually communicate and self-identify at a basic level.
I'd almost say that the lack of a smash bang consumer product story is even more evidence that the technology is diffusing all over the place.