This is not about Linux. Every brittle OS on ARM uses the standard ABIs. But Apple can't? Gimme a break.
This whole thing reads like the LuaJIT guy whining that he has to do some work to port to iOS. The compiler-rt library provides these functions and it shouldn't take him more than 10 minutes to figure out the proper names to use on iOS.
I can also understand Mike too that he didn't want to spend the time on that port (I think, because iOS doesn't allow apps any Jiting, thereby limiting the power of LuaJit on iOS). Still the information that ohmantics gives regarding compiler-rt library can help us obtain a balanced view.