The r/StableDiffusion folks will go as far as calling those complaining about comfy "PEBKACs", which is a term I hadn't seen since the 00's.
Neither tool is really appropriate for beginners, and frankly they're not even fun to use for extended periods as they're constantly breaking.
If all you're trying to do is generate images, it's not worth installing a universe of broken Python and 100 GB of weights on your machine.
It honestly feels like 2000's-era Linux hobbyists proclaiming the "Year of Linux on the desktop" when interacting with these communities. Their tools are busted, but lots of folks will blame you, the user.