I use Tailscale - so I can do remote tech support on my 81 year old mother’s computer
- So I can remote in to my desktop from anywhere with my mobile phone or iPad or Vision Pro or Steam Deck if I need a file or need to print something
- watching streaming media from my home network when I’m travelling (and avoiding VPN blocks because my home computer isn’t on a known VPN network)
And the best part is none of this required almost any configuration beyond (a) installing the software, (b) checking the “allow exit node” box on my home computer, (c) sharing my mom’s computer onto my tailnet.
It really is just useful with minimal fuss.
Perhaps the AI age makes everyone more data privacy conscious.
I've also long thought that eventually every household will eventually have a mini server for home automation and storing personal information. The rise of the cloud kinda slowed this down, but I don't think cloud and home server are mutually exclusive.
Maybe a NAS that comes with Jellyfin and Immich pre-installed? But that still leaves the problem of content...
Is it because lot of people are just using a VPN as a proxy replacement, watering down the original meaning of the word?
Yes. The question was about a “mainstream consumer”. While “mainstream” is always a moving target, today (in March 2025) that mainstream consumer believes that a VPN == NordVPN == ExpressVPN == what we call/know as a proxy.
NordVPN added some mesh features and you can CTRL-F this thread to find a confused person asking “how is tailscale different than Nord?”
What's app do you use to browse data on your desktop?
I use VPN (usually Tailscale, though I have the Proton subscription package that includes their VPN - mainly useful if for some reason my home internet is slow or out, otherwise I would just TS it) on all public WiFi. My work's remote access blocks logins from outside the US, so if I'm out of the country, my wife and I both need VPN to be able to log in.
Interestingly, while my work's network blocks Tailscale's initial authentication, it doesn't actually block the traffic. I can authenticate my iPad via cell phone tethering or just before I leave the house and it will work when I connect to their network. It's a personal device without any access to their internal network, and I'm using the guest network, so I'm not compromising security to actual work devices. But when I'm stuck up there and I want to stream a movie from my NAS at home, I can.