Half right. Are you talking about Ian? that happened on one transaction.
Considering how tight knit our community is... I prefer to err on the side of respect, even if I disagree with some people's practices.
There's an SGUG admin I disagree with on this, but we get along anyways because we're both adults. I won't pretend I've been perfect, but quitting the booze in the quantity I was doing helped a bunch