Totally agree.
I got a philips hue dimmer switch for next to the bed. One of the best things I got for the home automation.
Just click it and everything in the house goes into night mode. no phone needed.
The lightbulbs themselves only have a Zigbee radio (and Bluetooth, but not in 2018). They communicate with the LAN via the wired bridge.
And double tap turns on a fan.
Tapo is likely a security nightmare.