Yes, and I think we run into that problem because we don't have a good definition of, or test for, consciousness. Ultimately we only have our own internal experience, and extrapolate from that with a bunch of assumptions. But I was thinking more in terms of "We think we know it when we see it." Not scientific, I know.
The LLMs and other software called AI seem good at appearing conscious, probably because humans have no other categories and match what LLMs produce (language) with intelligence and consciousness. People do the same thing with dogs and other animals -- assume an intelligence similar to their own, based on superficial behavior.
> I'm talking about this weird and unfounded exceptionalism that we place on eukaryotes being a prerequisite for thinking and consciousness.
Maybe unfounded, but not weird to me. Humans have no other examples of thinking or conscious entities other than the other living things on one planet that share an evolutionary history. Likewise humans have lots of experience with not seeing anything that looks like thinking or consciousness from non-living things.
Animistic religions attribute natural phenomena like storms and earthquakes to deities -- they invent sentient entities because the ground and the clouds don't appear to have agency and don't match the pattern of "things that think and have goals."
With a broad enough definition of "thinking" we can say that computers "think." A calculator qualifies with a loose enough definition of "thinking."
As for people willingly complying with their own enslavement, history has plenty of precedents. A Marxist would call capitalism such a bargain. Benjamin Franklin famously warned against trading essential liberty for safety. I suspect you got it right that people will go along with whatever the masters of AI give them, conscious or not, without much consideration of the consequences as long as they see some short-term benefit, or even nothing more than novelty. History demonstrates that people fall for utopian plans over and over.