This isn't your typical proxy war situation where US and Russia just pick sides in an internal conflict. This was something else.
What that all that means pretty much boils down to parroting Russian talking points.
Was it really help if the outcome ends up being worse than without any help? I'm taking about loss of life, property, and land.
Yes, that is my point, that in the end, the profiteers and instigators don't care.
That's what peace talks are all about. Do you think Japan and Germany had a say in what they had to give up at the end of WW2?
Like Russia in this conflict.
Which makes the above justification of a Ukraine absence from divvying up the spoils after a defeat rather circular.
I dont understand the difference here. Losing a war usually comes with unfavorable terms.
Ukraine is absent from table because durable military power is the table stakes, and they were always a proxy. If the US has decided it is done using Ukraine to bloody Russia's nose and scare Europe into line, then it's basically over.
From the US real politik perspective, it was always a win-win situation going in. The US will walk away with 2 new NATO allies, increased NATO spending, and severed trade with Russia.
That's completely irrelevant to the outcome
the Allies all met together and decided on the course of action on several occasions, like at Yalta