The entitlement doesn't come from thinking "dang, the project doesn't do what I want".
It comes from getting worked up that it doesn't. And it comes from getting worked up that your github/forum/slack correspondence doesn't go in your favor just because you really want something, even if you think you should have more clout because it's a small community.
Elm made a controversial but reasonable trade-off for its packaging ecosystem: No synchronous FFI, only async FFI (over ports or web components). That means that you can count on Elm packages to not have runtime bugs due to sync JS which is a reasonable guarantee with reasonable workarounds.
As for whether Elm is impractical or impossible to integrate with JS code because of it, did you try? To me this complaint is like when I used to read people saying JS Promises led to worse code than JS callbacks early on in Javascript's transition. I couldn't relate to it much. You learn the idiosyncrasies and you move on.
I think part of the entitlement is the people who choose to never move on. Elm sucks, it's impossible to integrate, it's impractical, nobody should use it. Or... exit the theater and let the rest of us enjoy the show?