This cannot be stressed enough:
Space is big. Whatever you think big is, it’s so much bigger, that even thinking about it is mind bending and could induce vertigo.
The nearest star, our Sun, could hold 1.3 million Earths. It only looks the size it does because it’s far away. How far? At the speed of causality (the universal speed limit), which is the speed at which light travels in a vacuum, of 3.0 x 10^8 m/s or 670.6 million miles per hour (pretty fast), light from the Sun takes 7 minutes to reach Earth. For a comparison on the scale of just the planets in our solar system, that same light takes 5.5 hours to reach Pluto.
You might think that’s not so big.
As a point of reference, Voyager, which has been traveling since 1977 (~47 years) at around 38,000 mph, is around 23.5 light hours away.
Now, our closest star, Proxima Centauri, is 4.2 light years from Earth. Voyager hasn’t even gone a light day in nearly 50 years. At currently attainable speeds, it would take over 50,000 years to get there.
That’s just the closest star. Just one potential solar system.
Our galaxy, the Milky Way, is thought to have 1-400 BILLION stars (hard to tell from the inside). Our observations indicate that it is 100,000 light years across.
Now if that wasn’t bad enough, for intergalactic travel, the closest galaxy, Andromeda, is 2.5 million light years away. It is estimated to have up to a trillion stars.
After that, it gets even more stupefying. We can see hundreds of billions (with a b) of galaxies as far away as GN-z11, which is estimated to be 32 BILLION light years away.
We’ve made it less than a light day.
We have no idea if we can even approach even a substantial fraction of the speed of light, and even if we could, there’s time dilation and the issue of slowing dowm. Communication would be anywhere from difficult to inconvenient to practically impossible.
Anything beyond that is either science fiction or a very well kept secret.
So that’s the reason we don’t have alien fossils or microbes.
It can take 18 months just to get to the next closest planet, and 8-10 yesrs to get to the farthest. never mind anywhere else.
And we are so far away from everything (as is everything else), even if there were radio or tv broadcasts, they would be far too weak for us to detect.
There probably is life out there, but maybe the great filter is that stars have a fixed lifespan and the distances are just too great to overcome.