Oh, bullpucky. People are hostile towards you because A) you employed ludicrously tendential wording, and B) when this was pointed out to you, you refused to own up to it -- or, more probably, to even realise or acknowledge it to yourself. In stead you went on to whine about "gatekeeping".

This kind of rant is typical of the public behaviour of the (typically young and "woke") modern social-media "developer" crowd, and your behaviour here only illustrates why so many dislike them. If there are any "hive mind effects" here, they're in your mind.