We Live Like Royalty and Don't Know It
thenewatlantis.com
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For a growing number people in first world countries now watching their public utilities fail them, either through neglect or deliberate acts of dismantlement, we really do understand how quickly it can all be taken away.
The ability to fly anywhere in the world to buy a pair of shoes and be home for dinner, or summon a fleet of contractors and machines and build a new palace in a matter of months - Thomas Jefferson would have considered these god-like powers. But they're available to anyone with a net worth north of $100m - which is literally tens of thousands of people.
Moreover, 18th and 19th century royalty could afford to hire an army of servants to see to their every need. Most people today are lucky to be able to afford a house cleaner once a week. Forget about a cook or a driver.
And sure, middle class westerners don't have a lot of servants that physically work in their house, but that's a very narrow view that misses the point.
The service industry is huge, things like child care and public/private schools (replacing nannies and tutors), restaurants and takeout (replacing chefs/kitchen staff), grocery store (replacing having your own farm and farm laborers), automated home appliances(replacing maids), running water and electricity (replacing servants), computers (replacing secretaries and assistants), Uber and self-driving or even just a drive-it-yourself car (replacing chauffeurs) and of course toilets are a big one...
Many of the ultra rich can indeed afford a roster of servants, to man their yacht, for example, but many of them still prefer not to do so and even do their own cooking and laundry for the priceless benefit of not having to deal with people other than their family in the intimate personal spaces of their home.
Privacy is a luxury not to be underestimated, and illustrated by the fact that your dishwasher and lawnmower will never fall in love and run away together with half your silverware.
Just think: there's a literal river of bananas coming from Ecuador etc that ends in every grocery store in the US. It's amazing.