First credible report of RTX 5090 FE with melted connector appears
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What are go-to connectors at these currents?
If you know you'll have airflow, and the insulation is rated better, you could run them hot.
This is a plain case of having not enough contact area (or not having enough mechanical safety/UX to ensure full insertion.)
¹ most: pretty much everything that isn't explicitly researched/chosen for its negative coefficient. Definitely all conductor and connector materials. But some semiconductors are known footguns for not supporting parallelization due to negative coefficients and runaway heat effects (one of the things you learn in EE education).
P.S.: materials with negative thermal coefficient don't turn into superconductors if you heat them far enough; the coefficient is not constant across temperature and it's either just not linear and approaches some nonzero value, or it just flips to a positive coefficient at some higher temperature. Or the material just melts or burns and then behaves differently anyway.
So, yes, it's doable, but there's a thermal/efficiency/reliability cost.
Generally you'd just design enough margin into it so that a failing strand doesn't matter. I'm suspecting they just didn't add enough margin, maybe it's only designed to support one of the six strands failing (I would really expect at least a tolerance of 2 failed.)
Or it's really a poor design regarding the mechanical latching; can't work if all pins have poor connection…