It is also why the overwhelming majority of software is terrible and IT departments are plagued by inefficient low performing teams: there's no engineering nor real thinking. It's a gaussian distribution of people with different coding and problem solving capabilities, but little engineering ones.
1. Don't open one's mouth when one is not sure about the topic;
2. Don't say anything without some good proof;
3. Be precise and keep it short.
Personally, I haven't managed to achieve any of them.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Art_of_Doing_Science_and_E...
https://www.seangoedecke.com/weak-engineers/
This other one had a "criticism" that hit me hard
https://www.seangoedecke.com/being-right-a-lot/
I don't do many assertions on our systems, out of fear of getting things wrong. This shows the holes in my understanding.
If you want to think like an engineer there are only facts and assumptions. Your assumptions will generally be wrong, often by multiple orders of magnitude. Just accept that.
In everything you do follow established processes step by step and measure absolutely everything with numbers. If you are capable of doing that you are thinking like an engineer.
Engineers, outside of software, are also subject to audits and liabilities. Evidence is your friend.
Understand what engineering job is and go build up the skill from smallest achievable goal.
There is motivation special”thinking”, don’t cargocult it )
Reading about engineering is not practicing engineering…sure it might be part of an engineer’s practice once they are practicing. But it is not solving real or pretend engineering problems.
Sure there is also learning engineering on the job from experienced engineers. But again, that’s not a book.
To frame it another way, engineering practice is about doing things correctly to solve the problem. Not in the way that benefits yourself. That’s why people can trust engineers.
Reading a book is not the way the problem of becoming an engineer is solved. Good luck.
Reading alone probably not. Doing exercises yes. That is solving fake engineering problems - which become building blocks to real problems. It’s like teaching your kids fables which become instructive tor real life. And that’s the way most engineers started to learn.
I get it. Don’t spend years reading books and THEN start looking for work. But regular study with real pen to paper should be a part of your job search plan, especially if you care about quality of coworkers and employer. You might knock on enough doors and find someone desperate enough to say yes, but now you are occupied full time in that environment.
As you said, engineers are payed to know how to do things correctly