32B models are easy to run on 24GB of RAM at a 4-bit quant.
It sounds like you need to play with some of the existing 32B models with better documentation on how to run them if you're having trouble, but it is entirely plausible to run this on a laptop.
I can run Qwen2.5-Instruct-32B-q4_K_M at 22 tokens per second on just an RTX 3090.