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Find a poor girl. You are probably going for the ones with a ton of options. Get out of your bubble.

I’m not interested in charity or exploitation.

A girl who started off at the same level as you, will appreciate what you have accomplished. A girl who grew up well off won't.

I’ve experimented with both. Neither really values where you come from and what you’ve accomplished. What they care about is what you’re going to do for them.

In my case, I just happen to care about what they’ll do back because I’m not interested in super imbalanced relationships.

You’re judging “balance in a relationship” by how much money you both make?

You said earlier you are making $700K. Would you not date a teacher making $70K?

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