Presumably eBPF requires root privs?
However, even in the case of general developers, it isn't true. Companies do restrict exec abilities, but we don't. Many startups are the same, because developers are expected to also troubleshoot and debug production issues. If you don't allow shells in pods, you are really binding the hands of your devs.
To be clear, I am not disagreeing with you. You are correct in many cases. But there are a number of exceptions in my experience.
There are eBPF tools which will work, for example https://inspektor-gadget.io/docs/latest/gadgets/trace_ssl