Suffering isn't a competition. Stripping a group of people's identity and forcing them to confirm is oppression btw.
You can identify whatever you want but society has no obligation to conform to your made uo identity. It's not oppression, it's freedom of speech.
The United States was built on oppression, slavery, and genocide. We have a long history of concentration camps for people deemed enemies of the state. There are women and children in cages at the border right now. I have no doubt influential people in the federal government would like to include me and people like me in the list of people to lock up, for the children.