Weird phenomenon.
Weird phenomenon.
And there's a very large uncanny valley to cross until you become a respected comedian like Rowan Atkinson ...
Remember; Pain is weakness leaving the body.
seek the wave, grasshopper.
I do find myself pricking up my ears to hear better, not always consciously.
FWIW, I can raise my eyebrows individually, flare my nostrils, twitch my nose, and also flex some muscle which pops my ears. Useless human tricks. Except popping my ears; super useful on airplanes.
I always thought it was a muscle in my ears, but I remember looking it up, and it's actually farther back like behind your throat or something. I can't do just one ear at a time, it's all or nothing.
> The effectiveness of the "yawning" method can be improved with practice; some people can achieve release or opening by moving their jaw forward or forward and down, rather than straight down as in a classical yawn,[6] and some can do so without moving their jaw at all by activating the tensor tympani muscle, which is heard by the individual as a deep, rumbling sound.
> During swallowing or yawning, several muscles in the pharynx (throat) elevate the soft palate and open the throat. One of these muscles, the tensor veli palatini, also acts to open the Eustachian tube. This is why swallowing or yawning is successful in equalizing middle ear pressure.
Also useful when you're diving. I can equalise without holding my nose for the first 10-15m, just by doing the thing with the ears. Doesn't work all the way down tho...
But, I can only do this on my right foot. It's like I have awareness of a muscle and tendon there that is just absent on the other foot. It was weird to realize this asymmetry at first when I was young.
If you have cats and make a noise behind the ears automatically swivel back. I guess we must have something live that in our evolutionary past.
And like OP I eventually managed to control one ear (right) but not the other, even to this day 40 years later
After reading the article I think its a "use it or lose it" thing where the muscles and ability to control them atrophy in our modern environment. We have more competing sounds and external means to "turn up the volume" so we can hear a particular thing.
I find it very distracting personally.