We would see it years before, and we would know with certainty years before.
If the object really looked like it might impact I'm sure someone would get time on a powerful telescope to lock in the orbit.
If the object really looked like it might impact I'm sure someone would get time on a powerful telescope to lock in the orbit.
Also, if you evacuate New York a year in advance, who's to say that the prediction isn't just a skosh off so that New York is left untouched but the real impact location was hit unprepared?
Knowing where, will depend on the angle of impact - if came basically straight in (tangent to the surface) we can be pretty accurate, but the more shallow the angle the harder it will be.
With a shallow angle, we'll probably be able to tell the latitude pretty well, but not the longitude.