https://www.newegg.com/p/N82E16819113866
https://www.newegg.com/supermicro-h13ssl-nt-amd-epyc-9004-se...
As for memory, these two kits should work (both are needed for the full 12 DIMMs):
https://www.newegg.com/owc-256gb/p/1X5-005D-001G0
https://www.newegg.com/owc-512gb/p/1X5-005D-001G4
Since it would be a 2DPC configuration, the memory would be limited to 4400MT/sec unless you overclock it. That would give 422.4GB/sec, which should be enough to run the full model at 11 tokens per second according to a simple napkin math calculation. In practice, it might not run that fast. If the memory is overclocked, getting to 16 tokens per second might be possible (according to napkin math).
The subtotal for the linked parts alone is $5,139.98. It should stay below $6000 even after adding the other things needed, although perhaps it would be more after tax.
Note that I have not actually built this to know how it works in practice. My description here is purely hypothetical.