Rather than "validating" it, I'm experiencing it. That's why I believe in a forum of generally highly educated people like Hacker News, we would be better off not mixing those topics and talking about politics.
What you are asking is wishful thinking, Tesla has became political because of Elon, there is no way to dissociate this relationship.
You deciding to purchase a Tesla even with the moral hazards does have consequences, shame and laws are the only tools against moral transgressions, you are just experiencing the pressure of that tool which is exactly the point...
Either live with your decision and its consequences or do not buy a Tesla associated with Musk.