Yes, the pyramid was set out as a goal in its original incarnation. That was deeply wrong. The shape ought to be emergent and determined by the nature of the app being tested (i went into detail on what should determine that here https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42709404)
Some of the most useful tests Ive worked with HAVE had a large GUI tip. The GUI behavior was the most stable surface whose behavior was clearly defined which everybody agreed upon. all the code got tested. GUI tests provided the greatest freedom to refactor, covered the most bugs and provided the most value by far on that project.
GUI tests are not inherently fragile or inherently too slow either. This is just a tendency that is highly context specific, and as the "pyramid" demonstrates - if you build a rule out of a tendency that is context specific it's going to be a shit rule.