I wonder if Apple runs statistics on controls and sees if a setting isn't used as much by the common user, so power users (audiophiles/etc), are hurt by these decisions.
This is also solved by using $8 earbuds and not shoving overhyped $200 hazelnuts into your ears.
This post will make me try it again though.
The new change in iOS 18 was highly annoying for me and took me about 20 minutes to figure out how to get the previous behavior back.